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Your EnergyAttract Deep, Lasting Love

$49/month to change how women feel in your presence

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education, support, and modern tools for men who
are ready to love again

But this time
without:

Self-Sabotage
Overthinking
Being a douche
Giving so many Fuks
Giving away your power

WTF IS
BIG DEPTH ENERGY?

Its the quiet confidence of a grounded + secure man

The inner fire she can feel before you even speak

Now is the time
for the rise of
CONSCIOUS men
who want
to uplift
and honor
women

Without Losing Themselves
in the Process

Draw the right women to you who crave your unique depth.

THE BDE METHOD:

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Your Energy

Grounded Leadership that
Men respect and Women notice

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Your Porn

Erotic affirmations
that rewire your self-worth

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Your Words

Learn to flirt without being
cringey or creepy

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Your Intimacy

Sacred sexuality education
and exclusive vetted-only events

You don't have to do this alone

Let yourself be held in community of brothers who have been there before.

Weekly Office Hours and 2x Monthly Men's Circles for live coaching, feedback, and community
Conversation Audits to sharpen your dating and communication skills.
Bonus Rewards for supporting others and unlocking deeper tools

Real men,
Rising Together

The only dating and intimacy method with Affirmational Erotica built inside

ChANGE YOUR RELATIONSHIP TO PORN,

Create Your Own Healing Self-Pleasure Ritual to build an unwavering love with yourself.
You do not need to quit porn, just the toxic crap you're used to
Manifest Confidence and Trust Your Deservingness For Love with erotic reprogramming from Women who actually give a sht about you

What's Included

THE BDE METHOD UNLOCKS:

Quiet Confidence

Built from your breath, your body, and your integrity. No phony Pickup BS

FLIRTING THAT LANDS

Spark attraction without being cringey or cancelled

REJECTION RESILIENCE

Give less fucks when she says no

BUILT-IN P*RN REPLACEMENT

Confidence-building erotic reprogramming

NERVOUS SYSTEM MASTERY

Hone your relaxed presence she can feel

Bonds of BROTHERHOOD

Real Men, on the same path, rising together

LEADERSHIP In and out of the BEdroom

Your depth creates space and safety for her wildness

You walk into a room and feel at home in your own skin.You move through conversations with ease, not effort.You attract women who see you—and want the real you.You’re no longer trying to "be enough" for love.You are enough.And you build a connection that fits the life you’ve been building—not one that asks you to lose yourself.

SECURE Men attract Big Love

A full support system for men ready to re-enter the dating world with their best, truest self.

Meet Your Instructors:

Love and Intimacy Mentor
Ross Lewin

Hundreds of Men Mentored
Creator: Big Depth Energy Method
International Intimacy and Confidence Coach
Conscious Communication Expert
Trained in Tantra, Breath Training, Men's Work

Feminine Support Team:

Rainbow:
Vibe Stylist
Lotus:
Woman's Perspective
Eden:
Emotional Intelligence
Rune:
Sexy Affirmations
Iva:
Integrated Nutrition

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BIG DEPTH ENERGY COURSE

This course is a complete training system designed for men who are ready to date again—and do it differently this time.No more performing. No more shrinking. No more second-guessing if you’re “enough.”